If you want to be skillful in human relations this is a must! Nothing will help you more in your lifetime than learning to be agreeable.
Any fool can argue and disagree with people but is takes a wise main to agree-particularly when the other person is wrong.
Get yourself in a frame of mind and attitude of being agreeable. This doesn’t mean than you disregard your morals or put up with something you know is blatantly wrong, it’ s how you approach the matter and that person.
Let people know which points that you agree with them on. Do not tell people that you disagree with them unless this is absolutely necessary. If you don’t agree with them it doesn’t mean that you have to argue with them.
Admit it when you’re wrong. The average person will lie, deny, or alibi! Don’t argue! Nobody wins an argument.
You will run into people that are fighters-they are looking for a fight. Refuse to fight with them. Keep your mouth shut, as much as this may be difficult.
Remember: People like those who agree with them, people dislike those that disagree with them, and people don’t like being disagreed with.
Jacques
CreatingWealthThatLasts
2 comments:
Hi Jacques .. keeping your thoughts to yourself .. and just working with what you've got .. staying agreeable .. I absolutely agree ..
Have a good week ..
Hilary Melton-Butcher
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Hello Jacques,
This is a skill that is greatly needed if you are in business. No one likes to work with a grumpy person. It can drive business away very fast. Thank you for this subject and the importance that it is.
Dan and Deanna "Marketing Unscrambled"
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